Yesterday, we talked about energy vampires

How can you protect yourself from those people who are needy, who make drama, who drain you?

You can start by avoiding these people and not letting them hang out with you.

But if you can’t do that, if you care about these people, or for some reason have to be around them, then you need to protect yourself.

Awareness is 50% of the Solution

If you’re aware of the energy vampires, that’s half the battle right there. If you understand that you can’t help them by letting them suck energy off you (either by listening to their problems, engaging in a fight, etc.), then you can more easily explicate yourself from it.

See Their Power

Energy Vampirism is misplaced power. Instead of using their own power, they’re using yours. It’s not that they don’t have their own power, they’re just ignoring it.  You might buy into this. Oh this poor, unpowerful person. Oh Boo.

That’s B.S. They have power.  Don’t assume that vampires don’t.  They also have the wherewithal to fix their situation. They just don’t want to.

I was talking with a friend the other day, and she said, “I feel overloaded by my friend’s problems.”

I said something very frank. I said, “You wouldn’t take them on if you thought she could handle them herself. Stop thinking she’s weak.”

Not very empathetic, am I?

Empathy is only useful when it is needed.

The Jedi Mind Trick

So, you know that part in Star Wars, where Obi Wan Kenobi says “These are not the droids you’re looking for” ? Well, you’re going to do the same thing. You’re going to think, “I’m not the person you want to talk to right now.”

This trick works so well that I rarely come across any energy vampires in my life. They are just not allowed, and so they don’t show up.  I’m not bragging. I’m just feeling super-lucky that I’ve got the Jedi Mind Trick.

Resonation

Energetically, their feelings of lack may resonate with you, especially if you’ve ever been in the state they’re in. If you recognize that their feelings of desperation are resonating with you, you can stop this by saying, “I don’t feel that way anymore. This is not my time to feel desperate, and I can’t help them if I’m weak.”

Whenever you do this things, you’re working at the energetic level. Your chakras are stopping the flow towards the vampire. And when a vampire can’t get energy, they move on,  or perhaps, they take the time to figure it out.

If you are energetically sensitive, you might feel your chakras.  You can always imagine the tie between you and the energy vampire, and then imagine a big silver scissors coming down and cutting that tie in half. Then imagine the tie sucking back into your body like a vacuum cleaner cord.

Vampires Anonymous

You can also say, “Hey, you need help.  You need help with your neediness. I can’t help you. But others can.”

And you can refer them to a mental health counselor and/or an energetic healer.

Nobody wants to be a vampire. Nobody. And nobody should have to feel the effects of one.

___________________________________________________________________________________

There’s but a week left in October. Get the October Special while you can. Mini Divine Guidance Sessions and/or Mini Past Life Sessions- 20 minutes with me for only $35….