Whenever my sweetheart and I go out on dates, we end up walking a lot.  We eat, we walk, we talk.

For seven years, I’ve done this in high heels.

Sexy high heels.  I even have a pair that light up like a strobe light when I walk.

Don’t these scream hot mama to you?

Yeah.

And guess which ones don’t…

This year on New Year’s, I wore the clogs.

And you know what?

I got flirted with (a lot), and when that ball dropped at midnight,  I got smooched (a lot).

And I’m not saying more than that because I’m a lady.

My favorite moment of the evening was when I ate a bite of steak off of Brian’s fork.

We don’t order the same thing because that would signify the apocalypse.

Also, though, it’s hard to ask for a bite of something you already have on your plate.  I digress. I digress.  I digress.

My point is this…

Your sexiness is not predicated on what shoes you wear. Or whether you are a size 6.

The sexy-o-meter is not only blaring off for those women on the Carl’s Jr. commercials.  It’s also blaring off for me and you.

This is a little shocking, isn’t it?

I have been shocked by this for years.  I’ve been shocked when really attractive men have flirted with me.  The other day I thought, “Well, I’m old enough to be that guy’s teenage mother!”

It’s really simple…

Sexy people are people who let their souls sing.

Sexy people are creative.

Sexy people have 2nd chakras that support their sexual health.

You know wh0 else is sexy?

People who chop wood. And do the dishes.  And hang up towels when they are done with them.

If you’re not feeling sexy, don’t go out and buy a new pair of shoes.  Don’t go looking for something to put on to make you sexy.

Try this instead- buy a cookbook. Get out some paint pots.  Get an amaryllis bulb and force it to bloom (I don’t think that plants get sexier).

You can also take my chakralicious workshop, starting next week!