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When Fierce Is Required

18 January 2010 3 Comments

This is a week of ferocity. This is an exploration of our fierce side.

We don’t like fierce much, do we?  Fierce is messy. Fierce is tearing down.  Fierce feels chaotic and unknown.

So, let’s take a break on the fierce path.

Let’s look at horses:

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Ah. Pretty Horse.

Okay, let’s look at some fierce horses…

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Doesn’t that horse in front look wise and fierce?

Horses are not known for their fierceness.

Not like tigers. Or polar bears. They are beautiful and big and fast.  But not usually fierce.

They can kill you, but emotionally they are like 1200 lb. rabbits.

Horses are technically prey. They are not predators.  With the exception of donkeys, wild horses and ponies worldwide live in places that have creatures that will kill and eat them.

People are Predators

And yet, we don’t like to think of ourselves this way.  We like to think of ourselves as nice.  We like to think of ourselves as good people who do nice things.

I, especially, like to think of myself as a soft, bosomy lady that keeps cookies in the cookie jar.

But there are times when fierce is required, and when being comfortable with ferocity is useful.

What is Fierce?

Fierce is from the Latin term “ferus”  which means “wild”.

It is an intense response of self.  It is a deep response.

Fierce is what helps a mom pull a car off her infant.

Fierce is what gets someone to walk out of an abusive relationship.

Fierce is what gets you to stand up for yourself at work. To stand up for an idea that really really matters.

Fierce is Not:

Ignorant.

Mean.

Cruel.

Chaotic for Chaos’ sake.

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When was the last time you felt fierce? How did it help you?

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3 Comments »

  • Daisies or Daggers- A Week of Two Paths | Voila! said:

    [...] Daggers Path #1- When Fierce Is Required [...]

  • Ronna Detrick said:

    I love the word fierce and don’t see it in a negative light at all. There’s something powerful and provocative about it; something that defines a woman who knows what she wants and will not compromise herself in any way, shape, or form. Wild is good. Dangerous is good. Risky is good. And any ways in which we can help each other re-define these words that have been used in negative ways (internally and externally) the better!!! Let’s be fierce together!!!

  • Denise G said:

    I am definitely scared of fierce, but know I am at that very fork in the road where i NEED to choose it. So, the daisy looked the most appealing, but I really gotta get fierce. I think the abusive relationship comment struck a nerve. So I wanna learn fierce–or learn how to tap into that.

Words, come easy.

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